Never Mourn Your Singleness: Most
singles in life worry themselves a lot about their being single forgetting the
fact that singleness has nothing to do with marriage. To be single is just a
state of life not a stage of life. Singleness is a state of boldness. Never
mourn your state of being unmarried or single.
Never Take Your Heart On A Journey
Without Your Brain: When going into a relationship of any
kind, always allow your brain to be involved even if your heart will also be
involved. Give the brain a chance to come in.Remember that the components of
one’s life are;
·
Head
·
Brain
·
Passion
Every Relationship Must Be Defined: An
undefined relationship is a dangerous relationship. The heart of a man is
definitely dangerous. A man does not grow old but as a woman, a year you waste
is 5years wasted.
Never Wave Away Warning Signals:
If anything is going to happen or anybody is going to help you, a warning
signal always comes which must not be ignored.
Look Before You Leap:
If any plan fails to materialise, there is always a room to go for another. Get
to know whom you’re dealing with and also get to know more about the other
party’s family.
Never Look Down On Anybody:
You are not what you wear, or what you
drive. Be nice to everybody you meet and remember ‘People are just people,
their income,position in life doesn’t make them better or worse than anyone
else. The same kind of people you meet on your way up are the same kind of
people you meet on your way down.
Prepare For Marriage And Not For
Wedding: After so many years of relationship or courtship with
one another, people tend to prepare for wedding and not to prepare for marriage
forgetting the fact that ‘Wedding is for a day, marriage is for a life time’.
There is a big difference between a wedding and marriage.
Don’t Sacrifice Future On Unnecessary
Pleasure: Though,there
are many temptations in one’s way to success but the future belongs to those
who are ready to dare and confront the impossible with the determination to
overcome. Your future depends on so many things but mostly on you. Your past is
experience, present is experiment, future is expectation, so use your experience
in your experiment so as to make your expectation come true.
Notes Taken
from
Olumide Emmanuel's Seminar
by
Talabi Abisola.
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